"Small beings can have small wisdom," the dragon said. "And small wise beings are better than small fools. Listen: Wisdom is caring for afterwards." "Caring for afterwards ...? Ker repeated this without understanding. "After action, afterwards," the dragon said. "Choose the afterwards first, then the action. Fools choose action first." "Judgement" copyright 2003 by Elizabeth Moon
Yes, as Kentinal just pointed out... we already have a scroll dedicated to such a topic, so please take the time to research that particular resource and pose any future questions there .
In addition, I'm sending you a small file of collated "true-name" lore.