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The Sage
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Posted - 18 Feb 2011 :  23:39:58  Show Profile Send The Sage a Private Message
We're deviating again, folks. Let's bring it back to the Realms, eh?

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Synthalus
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Posted - 18 Feb 2011 :  23:40:40  Show Profile  Visit Synthalus's Homepage Send Synthalus a Private Message
thanks sage!

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Aryalómë
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  00:53:04  Show Profile Send Aryalómë a Private Message
Lol, I kinda helped it to deviate. Well, I'm glad that tye Realms appreciate male beauty and don't think of homosexuality as anything that needs special attention or that they hate it :) Only if people in the real world tjought f it tjay way. I just wish tjat some authors in te Rems would make it just a TAD bit clearer :)a
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Alystra Illianniis
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  06:04:13  Show Profile Send Alystra Illianniis a Private Message
It's only clear when it really needs to be. Even then, they have to keep it ambiguous enough for WotC approval....

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Dennis
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  06:42:10  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Therise

quote:
Originally posted by Dennis
I think you will like Storm Constantine's Wraeththu Chronicles. The Wraeththu are the new supreme race composed solely of mankind's gay males. The narrator sometimes tends to make useless philosophical ramblings that don't help the plot at all. Other than that, everything else is excellent. I'm sure you can relate to some of the characters. The new race that Constantine elegantly created is very much interesting.

This is funny. The Wraeththu series is one that people either love or hate, without much in between. Technically, they're a race of mutant hermaphrodites (but also predatory, evil, and rather "yaoi"), not gay men per se. But in some ways they do act like stereotypical gay men, so a lot of readers think of them that way.

No offense, but with the constant, constant, constant sex involved (they're either doing it, thinking about it, or emo-whining about it), and the fact that they don't really form partnerships or long-lasting relationships, it is definitely a niche interest novel series. To me it just felt like it was an overly stereotypical gay sex fantasy (let's convert all the cute men and let all the women die), and overall it had very little depth. And as a race, the Wraeththu are all too perfect, too beautiful, too magically powerful (compared to the dying human population), and too obsessed with sex IMO. And they're really rather evil and uncaring. By contrast, the normal humans are all weak and rather helpless, and have lost much of their technology; very little fighting back against the predatory Wraeththu.

Written well in some ways, definitely. And some people do love the books. But it made me giggle constantly until I had to stop. It had a lot of potential with some very interesting themes to explore, but it was all spent in really shallow ways.





The Wraeththu are supposed to be the epitome of perfection; the ultimate potential of humankind. But their debauched and uncaring disposition has proven to be their undoing. Which sums up what Constantine once said that humanity can never attain perfection---in the perfect sense of the word; it can only strive for it.

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Ayrik
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  06:50:47  Show Profile Send Ayrik a Private Message
Sounds like a bit of a remake of Zardoz (a philosophically provocative, yet still utterly terrible movie starring Sean Connery).

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Chosen of Asmodeus
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  06:58:51  Show Profile  Visit Chosen of Asmodeus's Homepage Send Chosen of Asmodeus a Private Message
WotC seem to be laxing their standards in that they let Salvatore put an openly bisexual (female) character into his books. So who knows what we'll see in the coming years.

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Dennis
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  06:59:29  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Erik Scott de Bie
The way she did it looked a little like a publicity stunt, but the trouble is, since his sexuality did not influence the story in basically any way, this is exactly how I might have handled it had I written it. In fact, I *have* laced suggestions through novels of mine, and just haven't outright said anything. I mean, they did ask her a direct question, and she answered it. I don't feel like she was retconning anything.

Cheers



As I noted, she had been asked the same question twice---long before HP7, and a few months after its release. Why didn't she say he's gay at the first time she's asked about Dumbledore's love interest? Because [as she herself said] it's gonna spoil the rest of the books? In those flashback scenes where Grindewald and Dumbledore were supposed to have their 'gay moments,' I see nothing that clearly speaks of Dumbledore's true feelings towards Grindewald. Saying that Dumbledore is gay before HP6 and HP7 hardly makes it any spoiler. Why then did she bring up the issue of Dumbledore's sexuality only after the last book of the series?

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Dennis
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  07:05:24  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Arik

Sounds like a bit of a remake of Zardoz (a philosophically provocative, yet still utterly terrible movie starring Sean Connery).



The Wraeththu Chronicles is so much more than that.

The author's writing elegance is also apparent in about 80% of each book. Just forget the occasional ramblings.

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Chosen of Asmodeus
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  07:08:40  Show Profile  Visit Chosen of Asmodeus's Homepage Send Chosen of Asmodeus a Private Message
Dumbledore's sexuality not featuring in the story is as much of a spoiler as it featuring in the story in the potter fanbase; potter fans theorize about everything. Saying one way or another would shoot down numrous fan theories and possibly kill interest in the film.

Granted, I'm not unconvinced outing Dumbledore wasn't a plubicity stunt, myself.

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Dennis
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  07:25:23  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message

As far as homosexuality in the Realms is concerned, I hope WotC would show some higher level of tolerance by allowing authors to clearly, explicitly portray gay characters when their sexual orientation bears significance in the books [say, a love story subplot]. Though I understand why they're holding back---not all readers are comfortable with the subject being blatantly presented in the novels.

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Chosen of Asmodeus
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  07:30:12  Show Profile  Visit Chosen of Asmodeus's Homepage Send Chosen of Asmodeus a Private Message
I mentioned Salvatore having a bisexual character before, though (and I say this hoping not to start a debate over the book) the character's sexuality was in no way relavent to the plot, and seemed tacked on.

So hopefully they'll get better with their potrayals.

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Dennis
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  07:41:14  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message

I suppose Ed would have freely, unabashedly portray gay characters had WotC not cast the reins. Same goes to other authors who might have once felt the inclination.

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Ayrik
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  07:57:07  Show Profile Send Ayrik a Private Message
You're probably right, Dennis. But again, why would it really matter at all?

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Dennis
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  08:08:33  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Arik

You're probably right, Dennis. But again, why would it really matter at all?



It would matter if the author sees the need to exploit the sexual orientation of a character to further the plot, color it, or make a statement only he knows what.

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Aryalómë
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USA
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  17:25:45  Show Profile Send Aryalómë a Private Message
I think it would be quite interesting to habe a homosexual relationship in one of tye fiction books. I write a lot of FR stories thay male cjaracters are.t
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Chosen of Asmodeus
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Posted - 19 Feb 2011 :  18:15:32  Show Profile  Visit Chosen of Asmodeus's Homepage Send Chosen of Asmodeus a Private Message
I'll say they should include it just to include it, as well as lesbian couples that aren't done just as fanservice. But, as said, it needs to be not just something tacked onto the character, while at the same time feeling incidental.

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Alystra Illianniis
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  05:25:07  Show Profile Send Alystra Illianniis a Private Message
I dunno. I've used ONE character who was actually homosexual in my own tales, and it was really just there to show his infatuation with the main character, who happened to be straight. I needed some tension between some of the characters, and that one simply seemed to fit. I did, however, also have one who was bi (and also something of a pedophile, but that's another matter entirely) in the same story. I've never really considered a character's orientation to be important unless there was some aspect of the story that required it to be known. Romance or relationship tensions are really the only times this should ever come into play.

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Chosen of Asmodeus
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  05:32:37  Show Profile  Visit Chosen of Asmodeus's Homepage Send Chosen of Asmodeus a Private Message
Two of my favorite, recent depictions of gay characters come from fairly recent shows; the character of Barca from Spartacus: Blood and Sand, and the character of Sam Adama from Caprica. In neither case does their being gay have real effect on the story(other to demonstrate a lack of prejudice in the setting), they just feel like real people who happen to be gay.

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Dennis
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  06:07:36  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Alystra Illianniis
Romance or relationship tensions are really the only times this should ever come into play.



I suggest you read more GLBT novels.

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Dennis
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  06:13:28  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Chosen of Asmodeus

Two of my favorite, recent depictions of gay characters come from fairly recent shows; the character of Barca from Spartacus: Blood and Sand, and the character of Sam Adama from Caprica. In neither case does their being gay have real effect on the story(other to demonstrate a lack of prejudice in the setting), they just feel like real people who happen to be gay.



That alone is a significant enough effect/statement. Certain cultures or races would never [or find it extremely difficult] to tolerate homosexuality. Take the orcs for example---a race who value procreation as much as their deity. Unless one of them invents a spell or a means for two males to bear children, they would always find homosexuality beyond their tolerance.

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Chosen of Asmodeus
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  06:22:46  Show Profile  Visit Chosen of Asmodeus's Homepage Send Chosen of Asmodeus a Private Message
True enough.

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Therise
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  06:25:09  Show Profile Send Therise a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Chosen of Asmodeus

Two of my favorite, recent depictions of gay characters come from fairly recent shows; the character of Barca from Spartacus: Blood and Sand, and the character of Sam Adama from Caprica. In neither case does their being gay have real effect on the story(other to demonstrate a lack of prejudice in the setting), they just feel like real people who happen to be gay.


Actually, the Barca character's homosexuality did have a big story impact, and a sad one. Well done, all around, and I felt really bad for his partner.

In Caprica, I just found the whole Sam Adama relationship to be rather... forced into the story, just to make a social statement (and it really broke the fourth wall for me). Ron Moore does that kind of stuff ALL the time, not just with homosexuality but other social issues. It didn't come across as good, IMO.

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Chosen of Asmodeus
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  06:55:55  Show Profile  Visit Chosen of Asmodeus's Homepage Send Chosen of Asmodeus a Private Message
That he was homosexual didn't have an impact; that he was in a relationship did. It could have been played roughly the same if he were in a relationship with a woman, with only minor changes.

Granted, I haven't seen as much as Caprica as I wanted to(schedule conflicts), so what I didn't see may have felt forced. What I did see seemed natural, and, as I said, incidental.

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Alystra Illianniis
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  08:36:54  Show Profile Send Alystra Illianniis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Dennis

quote:
Originally posted by Alystra Illianniis
Romance or relationship tensions are really the only times this should ever come into play.



I suggest you read more GLBT novels.



Thanks, but no thanks. I've seen/read plenty of hentai/yaoi manga/anime, and I'm not really into homo-erotic novels. Dark fantasy and erotica, sure, but I like 'em straight, personally. I keep the other stuff in anime, mostly because it just seems to fit better there, IMO.

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Dennis
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Posted - 20 Feb 2011 :  09:09:48  Show Profile Send Dennis a Private Message
quote:
Originally posted by Alystra Illianniis

quote:
Originally posted by Dennis

quote:
Originally posted by Alystra Illianniis
Romance or relationship tensions are really the only times this should ever come into play.



I suggest you read more GLBT novels.



Thanks, but no thanks. I've seen/read plenty of hentai/yaoi manga/anime, and I'm not really into homo-erotic novels. Dark fantasy and erotica, sure, but I like 'em straight, personally. I keep the other stuff in anime, mostly because it just seems to fit better there, IMO.



Novels that are based on manga/yaoi are generally plotless, just like erotica for straight. They comprise but a tiny fragment of what GLBT as a genre really is, and therefore cannot be used to appropriately represent the said genre. In my very biased opinion [which incidentally bears some similarity to the authorities of Lambda], I believe the novels that best represent the "G" in GLBT are those penned Andre Aciman, Jamie O'Neill, Rob Byrnes, Perry Moore, David Levithan, Paul Ruditis, and Mary Renault. There's enough dose of erotica in them, sure, but they give more weight to the intricacies of gay life from the time of Alexander the Great to the present.

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Aryalómë
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Well, to tell you guys the truth, I hate yaoi a stuff because theymak the guys look like girls girls (an that's sickening), but I like a lo o ab, you guessed it, high fantasy ones. Lol Al of my characters are gjay (male ones that is) andI write my stories about them. But I hate all this "gay pride" and the festivals for it all becase they are extremely hypocritical. They are making us look like a minority, like a seperate type of people who need special attention. But anyway lol, I agree thay sexuality isn't really an issue at all with writing about, it's just how to make it fit with the story . Not like saying "Oh and he's gay." That would be really foeced and very uneeded. I like th whle romance/relationship bringing in idea.
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quote:
Originally posted by tradwitch1313

Well, to tell you guys the truth, I hate yaoi a stuff because theymak the guys look like girls girls (an that's sickening), but I like a lo o ab, you guessed it, high fantasy ones. Lol Al of my characters are gjay (male ones that is) andI write my stories about them. But I hate all this "gay pride" and the festivals for it all becase they are extremely hypocritical. They are making us look like a minority, like a seperate type of people who need special attention. But anyway lol, I agree thay sexuality isn't really an issue at all with writing about, it's just how to make it fit with the story . Not like saying "Oh and he's gay." That would be really foeced and very uneeded. I like th whle romance/relationship bringing in idea.

i kind of agree with you there.im straight but gay mardi gras and the whatnot only go to lengths to try and highlight that gay people are in some way different.there not.afterall you dont have straight pride marches.that would be considered homophobic.

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Aryalómë
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quote:
Originally posted by swifty

quote:
Originally posted by tradwitch1313

Well, to tell you guys the truth, I hate yaoi a stuff because theymak the guys look like girls girls (an that's sickening), but I like a lo o ab, you guessed it, high fantasy ones. Lol Al of my characters are gjay (male ones that is) andI write my stories about them. But I hate all this "gay pride" and the festivals for it all becase they are extremely hypocritical. They are making us look like a minority, like a seperate type of people who need special attention. But anyway lol, I agree thay sexuality isn't really an issue at all with writing about, it's just how to make it fit with the story . Not like saying "Oh and he's gay." That would be really foeced and very uneeded. I like th whle romance/relationship bringing in idea.

i kind of agree with you there.im straight but gay mardi gras and the whatnot only go to lengths to try and highlight that gay people are in some way different.there not.afterall you dont have straight pride marches.that would be considered homophobic.



Exactly. I hate it when most hlmosexual g off on that stuff. But some homos lie me s thag imxge for the disaster it s. I'm so glad the Realms doesn't have gays like that.
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Okay, you've all been asked more than once to return to the topic at hand. I think it's time to temporarily seal this scroll, as the discussion apparently seems to have run it's course.

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